Ejaculation is the culmination of a sexual act, either when intercourse or masturbation is undertaken. It is a pleasurable process that most men look forward to. There are many different ways to ejaculate, some we will learn through necessity while others out of curiosity.
Erectile dysfunctions are more and more common in today’s world. The increasing amount of pollution is causing a large number of these dysfunctions.
In this article we will discuss just one of these particular sexual dysfunctions called delayed ejaculation. This basically means the inability to ejaculate, which as you can imagine is an infortunate situation to be in.
The most common form of delayed ejaculation makes the man unable to ejaculate while in the presence of their partner.
If a man is cannot ejaculate in the presence of his partner, but can ejaculate normally while alone after some sort of sexual stimulation, then the reason behind his dysfunction is solely psychological.
Men suffering from such a dysfunction quite often have quite strict religious backgrounds and are generally taught that sex is a sin. There are also cases where traumatic events have led to this dysfunction. One other reason is that a man is simply not attracted to his partner.
Sometimes men are unable to ejaculate while masturbating, quite often they are leading a normal sex life. Some of the causes mentioned above also apply in this case.
If you are suffering from such a problem, you should seek professional help immediately. Go to your physician or doctor to get a referral to a therapist that can help both you and your partner.
The therapist will basically try to teach the two partners about sexual stimulation and their response in order to help them understand their own needs. The therapist might even recommend a treatment if necessary and can psychologically talk you out of such a situation.
Ideally, you should be able to stimulate yourself and your partner by just relaxing. There are little tricks everybody can use to bring sex closer to more perfect situation.
Try having a romantic candle light dinner, have some wine, and if you both think that porn can stimulate you in a better manner, then go for it.
You should try to avoid delicate issues in conversation and focus on having fun in a relaxed way. Try hugging and caressing each other instead of rushing into the sex part and be sure to take your time.