You had a perfect relationship and a perfect life
since a few days ago. You don’t know what
happened but for some time your relationship is
passing throw a bad episode, because you and your
girlfriend were not getting along anymore.
In any relationship things change after some time,
it is not all as beautiful as it was from the
beginning. Appear a lot of problems,
misunderstandings and also many argue. Even if
you love your partner very much, if you are
arguing every day, after a while you are enough
of all this and you may find the consolation you
need in other part.
What happen if in some day you are very upset
because you and your girlfriend were arguing
again, so you decided to go in a club with your
friends at a beer to calm down a little? But
there she is: your girlfriend’s best friend, a
beautiful, sexy and available lady which sees you
and get in talk with you.
You are talking with her about your girlfriend
and how hard it is to understand with her in the
last days, that you are not getting along anymore,
that’s why she upsets you every day. You are
enough of all of this, and you need someone who
understands you, love you as the way you are. She
understands you and offers her help to get throw
She was flirting with you until the day you met
her, but now it was her chance to get you.
Because she is very beautiful you couldn’t resist
to her, and you spend that night with her,
because she offered you the understanding you
needed. You slept with her, but what’s next?
You still love your partner and don’t want to
lose her. But the problem is that you don’t know
how to act in front of your girlfriend to not
find out. It is true that you were drunk but this
is not a great excuse to forgive you if she finds
out. You just slept with her best friend; you
really think that she will forgive you? I don’t
think so. So you’ve better speak with her friend
and tell her that this was just an affair and it
is all over now and she must keep the secret.
But what happens if she still uses all her
seductive powers on you anytime she has the
opportunity and tells you that she loves you from
the day she saw you. She agrees with you that she
wouldn’t tell to your girlfriend about you two if
you still accept to meet with her too. Let’s say
that you accept this, because you are too weak to
end your relationship.
Here are some safety tips to follow if you want
that your girlfriend to not find out about this:
don’t permit to your new friend to call you on
your cell phone, you may buy a new number just
known by her, don’t tell at any friend of you
about your affair, use always condoms to not have
a bad surprise, and if your girlfriend has a
suspicion about this, deny.
But you shouldn’t play with fire. You love your
actual girlfriend but the other is much
attractive and sensual. You better think which
you like most and make a choice. If you choose to
keep your actual relationship, the best thing you
can do is to try to not spend much time in the
presence of the other, and definitely not stay
alone with her somewhere. It may get worse.
Also, you know your girlfriend’s best friend very
well and it is common to discover that you and
her have a lot in common as well, and the more
time you spend together, the more attractive she
becomes to you. If you discover that the feelings
between you and her are very serious, you have a
complicated situation in your hands.
The best thing you can do is to break up with
your girlfriend, but not to tell her the real
reason, say it that it doesn’t work anymore; it
will be tragic for her anyway so it is better to
not find out that you are having an affair with
her best friend. This means that you don’t have
to run in the other’s arms after that, it is
better that not make public your new relationship
Having an affair is not something plan, it just
happens. People decided to have an affair for
many reasons: disappointment in the relationship,
misunderstanding, also attraction, curiosity,
excitement, risk or challenge.