10 Reasons Why SOME eRelationships don’t Work

You are single, bored and you just have nothing
to do. It is another miserable day like the day
before. You need someone to talk to and you are
turning on the computer, browsing some… dating
sites. There are so many people… singles, like
you are.

What should you ask from them? Can they change
your life for better?

The answer to the last question is up to you.
Would you let a person you have met online to
change your life? Are you willing to do this? Do
you trust someone you have met this way?

SOME people simply do not have the courage to let
an online relationship to develop and change in a
normal healthy relationship. Are you one of them?

Let me re-ensure you that online relationships
really are working, and yes it can change your
entire life, in a good way. 🙂

But there are some impediments or mistakes which
are leading to the end of the relationship
between two people that could have had a good
future together:

  1. First of all if you do not take people you are
    taking to too seriously, you will be treated the
    same way.
  2. Being too secret and reserved. If you do not
    tell things about you and you are not working to
    develop a relationship, nobody will make this for
    you.
  3. Trust or lack of trust is the biggest
    impediment of an eRelathionship. You have to try
    to get the people you are taking to trust in you,
    and then find out if that person is a trustworthy
    one. There are so many ways to check out this.
  4. Being shy. If you are interested in someone
    and you want to meet her/him offline, let her/him
    know this. What do you have to lose?
  5. Fear of disappointment or fear of becoming a
    victim of someone with bad intentions can make
    you paranoid. It is good to be preventive but not
    exaggerate about this. It is not funny and will
    pull people away.
  6. Unbelieving. If you do not believe that an
    eRelathionship can become something more then it
    is, you will not pay too much attention and…
    You get exactly what you give and some more, don’
    t you?
  7. Do not make that relationship a priority in
    your life. Any human needs to feel that is
    important for someone, that is the center of
    someone life, even if you have meet that human
    online. Don’t you feel the same? Wouldn’t you pay
    more attention to someone if you would know that
    you are a priority in his/her life?
  8. Not making the next step. Talking online can
    be fun but it is not enough to get to know a
    person better and after a while it can become
    boring. Talking on the phone can help you two to
    develop the relationship and do not forget that
    you can feel chemistry only when you two are
    meeting face to face, touching each other,
    feeling the smell of her/his perfume.
  9. Beeing insincere, pretending that you are
    something that you are not will lead you
    eventually to the end of any relationship. So be
    honest from the very beginning, maybe you have
    just meat the mach of your life, don’t take the
    risk to lose her because of a stupid mistake.
  10. Thinking that online dating sites are some
    kind of shops where you can find a lover like you
    find a pear of shoes, and if you are braking the
    shoes you can go back to that shop and buy
    another pair just like the first. It is not true,
    every human, every soul is unique. If you lose
    her/him it is for good. So I am sure that you
    will have problems like all couples have but it
    is worthy to make the effort to solve these
    problems together.

Be happy that the technology gives you the chance
to meet your match online, but do not waste this
chance, it could never come back to you.

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